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Just the other day I read this blog post….and all I could do was to say YES….YES!

If you are a pastor, and you affirm the thoughts below, leave a comment…

If you are a church member or attender, your thoughts are welcome too!

Read below…for I think that for some of you it will be eye opening!

The Myth of Free Time

A Lifeway Research poll conducted in 2009 revealed that almost 60% of pastors worked from 50 to 70 hours a week. About 78% of pastors worked anywhere from a minimum of 40 to 49 hours per week. One in ten worked 70 hours or more a week so the idea that the pastor doesn’t have a real job is contrary to the facts and pastors predominantly work more than most people who hold jobs in the secular fields. If you throw in bi-vocational pastors the average is more like 70 + hours per week with many approaching 85-90 hours a week. That is like having two full time jobs and when you include the necessity for squeezing in time with family, there is precious little time left in the week and by the way, they need sleep too. Most only sleep about six to seven hours a night. It is near the very bottom as far as pay is concerned for those holding a professional degree which should shatter the myth that pastors are in it for the money. One man once asked a pastor “What do you do all week?” as if he only preached sermons on Sunday. The myth that pastors have a very short work week is found to be just the opposite. Some actually believe that pastors have all week to work on their sermon but the truth is that sermon preparation takes about 15-18 hours per week, administrative duties take about ten to twelve hours per week, visitation (e.g. hospitals) and outreach can take about eight hours per week and it takes about eight to ten hours per week working on bulletins, newsletters, agendas, committee meetings, deacon meetings agendas, preparing for board and other meetings and creating agendas for them, dealing finances like banking, deposits, as well as making utility payments, and calendaring for future church events and activities. Add a few more hours for meetings with community leaders or representatives combined with responding to emails, prayer requests, and phone conversations and you have a very long week already and this is not close to a comprehensive list of a pastor’s duties.

We Don’t Get Depressed

Most pastors pour out their life and give out counseling to hundreds of people in their lifetimes (free of charge) and try to encourage and exhort others in the church when they often receive little or no appreciation themselves. It’s like they are constantly pouring themselves out like a drink offering with hardly anyone else filling them up. The idea that pastors are somehow more spiritual and are immune to feelings of discouragement, depression, and mental fatigue is totally misleading. The great majority of church members and those who live outside of the church walls believe that pastors are somehow above getting depression and suffering through long periods of sadness. The unreasonable expectations by most doesn’t help and if a pastor actually does seek help in the form of counseling, then this is seen as a weakness even though the American Medical Association said (in 2012) about 20% of the general populations suffers from clinical depression, although much of it is untreated and in the pastoral field, it is thought to be slightly higher. For some reason people seem to think it’s okay for them to offer multiple counseling sessions but the stigma is that they shouldn’t have to seek counseling themselves.

A No-Stress Job

Do I even need to write on this? Have you ever spoken with a pastor about whether they have a lot of stress or not? If you’re a pastor then I’m preaching to the choir but I can’t imagine a more stressful job than pastoring a church. Church membership’s expectations of the pastor put a heavy load on him and make him responsible for the church’s finances, growth, evangelism, outreach, maintenance, utilities, insurance, Sunday school curriculum, member’s conduct and so many other things. All of that weight is unfairly placed on one man’s shoulders and if something goes wrong, it’s entirely his fault. It is little wonder then that many pastors are suffering from depression and burn out and the average pastor stays at one church only about three-and-a-half to four years. We shouldn’t be surprised by what stress does because even Jesus needed time to get away and rest. They were constantly pressing in on Him and it had to wear on Him. Even though He was the Son of God, He was still in His humanity too. By the way, the size of the church, the number of cars in the parking lot and the amount of finances available are not true indicators of a church’s spiritual health but people point the finger at the pastor for that too, although God is no respecter of persons any more than He is a respecter of size.

We Know the Bible

Yes, we do know the Bible but sometimes I have to tell people “I don’t know” and they look surprised. I tend to say that where the Bible is silent, so must I be. Do pets go to heaven? Why does God allow babies to suffer and die and children to get cancer? When Job was suffering the loss of everything; his wealth, his children, and later, even his friends turned on him and blamed him for all of his suffering, Job never did get an answer from God as to the “Why.” Job just had to shut His mouth when God rebuked him for his self-righteous attitude but God was even angrier at Job’s friends for the way they treated and turned on Job. I suppose many people believe we have a greater insight into the secret or hidden will of God and I get asked frequently “What’s God’s will for me life?” but I cannot possibly tell them what God has planned for them because I can’t find an individual’s life-plan in the Bible. All I can tell them is that until they obey the revealed will of God (e.g. Rom 12:2; 1 Thess 4:3, 5:18) He is not likely to show them His secret or hidden will for their lives and besides, if it’s hidden, then it’s none of my business trying to guess what it is. It’s obviously hidden because that’s God’s business and not mine…or theirs.

My First Priority is the Church

Sorry, but this is totally wrong. My first heavenly priority is to God. I will answer to Him and not to the church membership but even further, the family is the first earthly ministry priority because if a man can’t even take care of his family, he has no business trying tend the flock of God (1 Tim 3; Titus 1). Most people think that they can just pick up the phone and call the pastor any time, day or night, and he’ll come running. Nope. He has a family. He needs to stick to his schedule but of course emergencies happen but that’s not what I’m talking about here. I had one of our church members call very late one night when my wife and daughter was in bed and I was getting ready to go to bed myself…but he just called to “chat.” I spent 20 minutes on the phone with him and when I was finished with the call, I was so wound up that I couldn’t sleep. It seems like he treats me like this: “Well the pastor doesn’t really have a real job” or “He can be flexible and doesn’t have a work schedule like me” and so many reason, why not just pick up the phone and call him any time you want.

Conclusion

Certainly these myths are only the tip of the iceberg. I cannot hope to give you a comprehensive listing of pastoral myths in one article, let alone in a whole book! I hope the congregation realizes just how much time and effort the pastor puts into his calling. We are no different from other people. We get stressed, depressed, worried, burned out, overworked, and are frequently underappreciated, but the thing a pastor must remember is that they are first and foremost accountable to God and not the membership or anyone else’s expectations. It is a very special calling and even though we are no better than anyone else, we do have a greater responsibility to God and that alone can keep a pastor up at night. If you do nothing else, at least pray for your pastor. He needs it desperately.

Pastor Jack Wellman Jack is an author and pastor at the Mulvane Brethren church in Mulvane, Kansas. You can find more writing from Jack atWhatChristianWanTtoKnow.com and FaithInTheNews.com

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What if you were Satan???

Posted: November 11, 2012 in Ministry
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Over the last year, I have enjoyed the musings of Thom Rainer, the President and CEO of LifeWay Resources. Just the other day I saw this posting of his, and it is totally worth reading. So, take a few moments and read below, and do answer my question at the end…

If I were Satan . . .

I would focus on the churches. I would get members to demand their own preferences. I would urge them to complain about the length of the pastor’s sermons and the color of the carpet. I would set member against member to fight over the right worship style. And I would make the business meeting the time where the most carnal members spoke and fight and destroyed.

If I were Satan . . .

I would encourage church members to avoid high levels of commitment. I would remind them that they are there to get their needs met. I would whisper to them that they shouldn’t be involved in ministry, because that’s why they pay the pastor and staff. And I would urge them to fight one another over tertiary and minor doctrinal issues. I would encourage Christians to identify themselves by their tertiary doctrinal stand and to exclude anyone else who does not match their precise standards.

If I were Satan . . .

I would let the leaders know that it’s okay to minimize and avoid the truths of God’s Word. I would encourage them to preach less Bible and deal with more relevant issues. I would make certain that small groups barely dealt with Scripture, but instead spent most of their time talking about sports, gossip, and politics. I would suggest that members do not need to spend time in the Bible on their own; a thirty minute sermon each week is sufficient time.

If I were Satan . . .

I would make certain church members understood that evangelism is not relevant in today’s society. I would tempt leaders to stay away from urging members to be engaged in gospel sharing lest they offend someone. I would dissuade everyone in the church to think about hell. It’s really better to keep it at as an abstract concept rather contemplating the eternal consequences of rejecting Christ. And I would tell church leaders to send their called pastors and missionaries to seminaries where evangelism is an afterthought.

If I were Satan . . .

I would whisper to Christians in the church not to think about abortion. It is politically incorrect and unpopular to broach the subject. I would tell them not to focus on the reality that over one million babies are killed each year in the United States alone. I would make sure they didn’t know that, in the time of a one-hour worship service in church, more than 130 babies were killed in the United States. I would let them know that it’s okay not to dwell on the greatest slaughter of humanity in the history of our nation.

If I were Satan . . .

I would keep church members so busy that they wouldn’t have time to pray. I would make certain that the leaders are discouraged from ever mentioning prayer as a priority in their congregations. I would assure the members that a brief time of prayer during a brief worship service is sufficient for the totality of their prayer lives. I would indeed do all I could to keep people from prayer, because it’s such a threat to me and my power.

If I were Satan . . .

And if I could do all these things, I am sure I would see churches across America void of power. I would see most churches in both spiritual and numerical decline. I would see Christian fighting Christian. I would see apathy, discouragement, dropout, and disillusionment. And I would look over the landscape of American churches, and I would see all of my victories. Then I would roar with pleasure at the new church order I see, and I would declare:

“It is good.”

“Indeed, it is very good.”

Ok…what do you think about this blog post? What would you add to the list above? I would love to hear from you, so please take a few moments and leave a response below!

Original post is at: http://www.thomrainer.com/2012/11/if-i-were-satan.php

Wow!

There are very few things that I read that just speak to my core. Yet, when I do come across something that does, I just want to speak it out loud to everyone and everything. As I read the below blog post, it spoke to my core…it spoke to where I want to be…it also speaks to how I am going to live!

Pastor, Christian…take a moment right now before you read the post below, and ask the Lord to “speak to you”.

I would also love to hear your thoughts on this…so as you read through, as the Lord speaks to you, collect some of those thoughts and let me know about them in the comment section below…

The local church is the front line of ministry. In the battle against the spiritual forces of evil, the church is the trench. Christ’s bride is dug in, charged up, and ready to die for the freedom of souls. I relish the trench. It’s messy, at times gruesome, and the noise makes it difficult to sleep.

But I love it.

While there is no beauty in warfare (spiritual or otherwise), the battling bride is a gorgeous organism. Despite the muck, despite the damage, and despite the fight, she remains pure, white, and righteous. She belongs to Christ. She combats for Christ. She never stops engaging in the mission of reclaiming captives of darkness. The fighting white bride shines in the gray of spiritual war.

As a pastor, I realize the gravity of decisions I make. Vision isn’t just a compelling statement of future growth. Programs aren’t just tools for assimilating more people. Church events are far more than ways to make the community come to the campus.

When you invite someone to church, you’re calling them down into the trench. When you talk to someone about joining the mission, you’re asking them to suit up and grab a gospel grenade. The church is currently fighting a battle which will lead to ultimate victory. We win. Satan loses. And Jesus reigns. But we still must fight. The beautiful bride is a battling warrior.

Let’s stop pretending our churches are polished platforms of sanitized morality, speaking sentimentality apart from Truth. Let’s burn the preferences of wooden traditionalism. Let’s quit the silly game of worship experience one-upmanship. Let’s elevate spiritual grit above smooth and seamless operations. We’re in the middle of a serious war. Let’s get real about what we believe and who we’re really following.

When King Jesus returns, will he find the faithful in the trenches or in comfortable country clubs?

So we dig in. War is not won when soldiers retreat. Victory does not come to indifferent combatants. I’ve been guilty of placing myself on a pedestal. I’ve tried to climb into the ivory tower. I’ve ridden a few high horses. And I’ve found I’m at my best when I’m covered in mud in the trench of the local church. I’m fighting most fiercely when I’m not worried about my personal brand. I’m fighting well when I’m more concerned about the local pregnancy clinic than who retweets one of my pithy—but ultimately useless—140-character oddments.

So I fight.

I fight for people in the womb.

I fight for diversity in the local church.

I fight to help the poor.

I fight against injustice, and I fight for the widow.

I fight for every tongue, tribe, and nation.

I fight so sinners can clearly hear the deafening and all-consuming gospel.

The trench is the front line. I never want to leave until the battle is done. I want to die here: old, leathered, scarred, and exhausted. I can’t imagine approaching the throne of God unless I’m ready to collapse into the arms of Jesus.

I won’t stop until King Jesus returns, offering the victory promised. God, please don’t ever take me out of the trench. I want to die fighting.

The above post by Sam Rainer resonates within me! It is time to stop talking and take action! It is time to take up the sword and bend the knee…the battle is before us!

Share with me in the comment space below your thoughts on this…for I would love to get your two cents on this post!

 


By Sam S. Rainer

Sam S. Rainer is the senior pastor of Stevens Street Baptist Church in Cookeville, Tennessee.

http://www.thomrainer.com/2012/10/i-want-to-die-in-the-trench.php