Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions for Couples

Posted: March 19, 2009 in Ministry

A little late for the New Year, but never too late to start moving in the right direction!

Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions for Couples
In an article appearing in Associated Content, Sally Albright suggests that the new year is a good time for couples to be reminded of some simple but powerful ways to strengthen their relationships. To that end, she presents her Top Ten New Year’s Resolutions for Couples:

#10: Exercise Together
Exercising together as a couple can make getting more exercise fun, and you and your spouse can truly have a “healthy” relationship.

#9: Cook Together
Cooking dinner together is a great way to spend time together.

#8: Play Games Together
Take the time to have some fun with your spouse by playing games together — especially in the colder winter months.

#7: The Little Things
Sometimes, it’s the littlest of things that really matter. Something as simple as setting the coffee machine to brew in the morning or opening the car door for your spouse can really show how much you care.

#6: Get Romantic
The types of romantic gestures you do really depends on what your spouse considers to be romantic, whether it be bouquets of flowers or cuddling together and watching a football game on TV.

#5: Listening
Truly listen. Keep in mind that your spouse isn’t always in search for answers and may not want to receive advice. They just want your ears all to themselves.

#4: Fewer Arguments
Make a New Year’s resolution to argue less. Pick your battles wisely. Most importantly, learn to compromise.

#3: Compliments
Taking the time to compliment your spouse shows them that you do still love them, you appreciate them, and you still find them attractive. Surprise your loved one with compliments during appropriate times, such as when they dress up for a dinner out, do a job well done, or the way they handled your child’s misbehavior.

#2: Dates
A little alone time with your spouse can be all that you need to feel reconnected with them. Having a special date night at the end of the week can give you and your loved one something to look forward to.

#1: Saying I Love You
Say it often, say it with meaning. A simple I Love You can melt someone’s heart.

  1. Heidi Tuggy says:

    Hi Drew! Thanks for posting this. As I reflect on how God has worked in my marriage with Chris, I see how he has helped us to do these things for each other. It really does make a big difference. The one thing that I would add would be to have devotions together. There’s nothing like spending good quality time in God’s Word together and praying together to draw you close to each other. It really impacts all other areas of marriage. God has been good and I’m really looking forward to the rest of my married life!! -Heidi Tuggy.

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